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Oh, yeah, who doesn't?
I believe I am a human lie detector. I don't even have to check people's pulses or anything related to the human body. It's just vibes. Maybe I have a 6th sense. Almost immediately, my mind would give me warnings about what I am going to hear. Everything that my previous psychology professor taught the class about finding out if someone is telling the truth or not was already known to me. Pfft, I'd probably even beat the typical psychologist in determining whether someone is saying a truth or a lie.
There are far too many examples in my life where my friends would yap crazily to me about why I am asking them stupid questions, or that I am paranoid about them lying. Like, they would lose their sanity towards me. You know, if they were telling the truth, they wouldn't go all aggressive against me...and for some reason, I wasn't strong enough to stand up for myself and tell them exactly how I feel.
Oh, alright, I'll give an example and it will be very, very simplified:
I was hanging out with 2 friends. They were pretty quiet with me. They talked to each other a lot, but not to me. They kept looking at their cell phones, texting. They kept talking to each other, avoided talking to me, and kept checking their phones. After an ongoing cycle of this suspiscion they have achieved, I have decided to speak out.
Pretend their names are Billy and Bob.
I asked Billy, "Why are you checking your cell phone?" after he stared at it for approximately 10 seconds. As I asked him, I took a quick glance at his phone.
He answered, "Oh, I needed to check the time." Bullshit was he checking the time. When I glanced at it, he was reading some text messages.
I then told him, "Why would it take that long to look at the time anyways?"
He snapped at said, "Man, Kiki, why are you so goddamn paranoid! I was looking at the time. Stop freaking out! Find something else better to do"^ The conversation ran similar to that.
Okay, only a high alert child trying to hide something from someone would lash out like that. Of course he was lying. I then checked Billy and Bob's phone (teehee) on another day and realized they were talking and saying shit about me. The date/time on the text messages sent/received was during the times I was with them.
I am not friends with them anymore. No regrets about losing touch with them either.
They sneaky...but ain't sneaky enough!
Teehee! :D
13 comments:
Something interesting, my dad always used to say that you should always lie to everyone that you ever encountered about everything, he also genuinely believed that you should also always lie to your family and closest freinds about everything as well. My dad was far from being a cynical man its just that he thought that nobody ever respects the truth and that we lived in a society where people who told the truth were being laughed at more and more. Actually, strickly speaking, my dads opinion makes a total and utter nonsense of all human inter-action because it makes you realise how false and absurd it all really is!!!.
Well, that's interesting. I guess you shouldn't lie for that reason. So what if you'll be laughed at for the truth? I'm just saying...
kiki, friends like this no good for your health. not saying to get rid them but to no hoping too much on them. the more expectation, the more disappointment will be upon you when it not met. its wise that you not get in touch with them anymore.
lying is not the way to make friends, honesty is. friend that lying to make you feel better is not a good friend at all. honesty is the main thing in a long lasting friendship even if we only want good honesty and not the bad honesty.
differences among friend that make each other unique and interesting. having a friend that have same interest and mindset certainly fun but after a moment of time, you will get bored. when each other respect and accept each other differences, tolerance and understand prevail and honesty with each other won't be a problem.
finding an ideal friend not easy nor hard. sometimes we need a bit of luck, time and fate. what make the differences is if we can spot which friend among our friends is which and pray that we're not mistaken on our choices.
as a fine wine, friendship need time to mature. this can be apply to your future companion too. so, observe, analyst and learn to find your own true friend.
ps - another very long comment. i can't help when idea suddenly came out and it just simply tapping the keyboard. i hope you won't mind.. ^^
Jefferi you must realise and accept that we live in a world and society that revolves exclusively around lies, hypocrisy, double standards, inconsistancies, and ludicrous absurdities on a grand scale. Nobody has any interest in the truth its far to scary and uncomfortable for them to even begin to deal with. I dont think that you or Kiki realise that to survive in this world you must lie all the time about everything, as soon as you tell the truth the game is over and you immediatly become a laughing stock with-in that community, never tell the truth about anything "EVER" it gets you absolutely no-where!!!.
yes teddy, the world and society is not perfect and friendly as it can be. we realize that too. even with those lies and etc revolving around us, the truth will come out at the end. we can't hide the truth forever you know. it take more lies to cover a lies and without you realize it, you will not know who and what you are anymore.
i don't believe that we need to use lies and etc to survive in this world. there are still a huge demand for a honesty. this might sound a little bit naive and idealistic but, we can't let all those negative energy and characteristic domain our everyday life.
Unfortunately, that's how life is. We can't necessarily stop dishonesty and lies. It's an ongoing cycle. I lie sometimes too, but it's usually very minor. Example: I say, "Yeah, the food tastes good." but when really I don't like it. It's more of a white lie in order to prevent some hostility in the air...if I'm critiquing, then I"ll say the food tastes bad. :P
All in all, we just have to accept the sad truth about our world - it's consumed with lies.
lol.. i guess someone made you a bad dinner last time.. XD
true, white lies can be a handy tool for us if it don't want make things worst. some people just can't handle truth well.
anyway, i guess it up to consequences that will prevail if honesty or lies is executed. of course we will not telling all our private stuff or feelings all over and some preservation needed for our sake.
Another important point for you both to remember is that "ALL" repeat "ALL" the lies, hypocrisy, absurdities etc etc that poisons and plagues our world is all directly derived from all the sexual repression that is also currently poisoning and plaging our world as well, if all the sexual repression in the world could somehow be eradicated all the lies and hypocrisy would literally vanish overnight, i want both of you to always remember that.
teddy, thanks for the advice.. :D
Merry Christmas Kiki, have a great time darlin`.
Kiki, i always use New Year as an excuse to celebrate and rekindle the magic of Christmas again (because the New Year celebrations are relatively meaningless to me) so on New Years Eve and New Years Day i instead imagine that its Christmas Day and Boxing Day again there-by having 2 Christmas`es within the space of 10 days instead of just 1, i hope you`ll be taking my advice and doing the same thing this year Kiki because Christmas is so Much better than New Year and 2 turkey dinners are always better than 1. So i will wish you a very happy New Year Kiki but most of all i`ll wish you another very happy and merry Christmas (remember Kiki, december 31st and january 1st are not december 31st and january 1st they are in fact december 25th and december 26th all over again, have a marvellous time you gorgeous little dream come true).
nice blog..................................................
Not only is it nice "LovieAvina" its also run by one of the hottest chicks anywhere on the net, the amazingly gorgeous Kiki.
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